The Disposal of the “Me Principle”

What do most people want in life? They want to be heard, understood and respected. However, few people get this recognition. In today’s world, many live by the “Me Principle.” Attitudes of “Life is all about me”, “I am more important than you” and “What is in it for me?” flock our society. But can’t you imagine how much more fulfilling life would be if we turned outward, rather than selfishly focusing on ourselves? What would happen if we could selflessly set aside our own ideals, passions and desires for just a couple of minutes when someone is in need of our help?

I was once with a young man who passed by a mother and her children on the road. Their car tire was flat. This young man could have easily driven by with the excuse, “I’m busy. I’m sure that someone else will stop.” However, he had other plans. Although his car was filled with passengers, he steered to the side of the road and jumped out. Without hesitation, he began to change the flattened tire of this young family’s car, selflessly serving strangers.

The “Me Principle” was unknown to him. Life’s experiences had led him to believe differently.  His attitude reflected “Life is not all about me”, “When you are in need, I am here to help.” Life becomes more fulfilling when we take the focus off of ourselves and place it on others. What can you do for someone today?